One of the things I usually remember about our various posts is the travel in the region. There was the time when we drove with several friends into a part of Russia where we only ate blini — Russian version of French crepes — for three straight days (vegetarian choices were limited off the beaten track). There was the time when we took a smelly, overnight train to Bukhara and a scary plane ride to Khiva (in Uzbekistan). There was the time when we had breakfast in France, lunch in Monaco and dinner in Italy. And there was the time when we saw Iguazu falls from both the Brazilian and the Argentine side.
These experiences were all very different but there is one thing that unites them — the opportunity to see things we may have not been able to see had we not been posted in the region. Every time we find ourselves expatriated to a country, we always look around. What can we see in this country and in the countries that surround it? What experiences are available to us?
To the dismay of our family and friends back home we almost never go home while living elsewhere. Instead we prefer to explore our surroundings. When, if not then, will we have this opportunity? And that’s why taking this chance to explore and Travel within the region of your post is the T for the A to Z of Successful Expatriation™.
Where have you traveled lately?
Any other T’s out there?
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Tagged Argentina, Brazil, Expat, expatriate, Happiness, Memories, Remembering, Russia, Uzbekistan
This week my daughter is celebrating her 10th birthday, although this birthday will be only the 4th one she’s celebrated in the country where she was born. As a third-culture kid (a TCK) she’s already had a chance to have her special day in Brazil, Argentina, and Russia — each celebration being very different from the others. And so, as we prepare for yet another party, I am thinking of differences in the meaning of birthdays and in birthday celebrations around the world. Not just for kids — for adults too.
The country where I grew up (Russia) one’s birthday is a very important occasion and that importance isn’t reserved for children only. Adults treasure their birthdays and celebrate them yearly in circles of their family and friends. An interesting fact is that when you decide to celebrate your birthday with co-workers, it is you, who is responsible for bringing a cake to share. My husband, an American, always found that a bit odd.
In the US birthdays are a lot less of a big deal for adults. Your family may or may not call you on your birthday and, even if they live far away but happen to be close on that special day, they won’t always come and spend the day with you. But in a different tradition from Russia, in the US your co-workers will treat you to lunch and your friends will treat you to dinner.
What meaning does your culture attach to birthdays? And how have you celebrated your birthdays (or your kids’ birthdays) in different countries? Please share!
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Tagged Argentina, Birthday, Brazil, Cross-Cultural, Expat, expatriate, Global Nomads, international, Memories, Russia, TCK, Third Culture Kids