If you have any doubts about the statement above, think back to the times when you met people who were always complaining or people who were always critical or people who were always frustrated or … etc, etc, etc. Inevitably these people got more of what was in their language – more to complain about, more to criticize, more to be frustrated about. Their reality kept conforming to their behavior.
What you focus on expands.
Bear that in mind when you are moving to another country, experiencing culture shock, repatriating, or simply having a not-so-good streak. Language is a powerful tool when it comes to defining your perspective and that perspective will either make or break your experience. Perspective will define the outcome.
Watch yourself and your conversations over the next few days. Notice what you talk about and how you are feeling. Write it all down and then review what you wrote. Does your language lead you to focus on problems or possibilities; on lack or on abundance; on apologizing or on standing tall. Once you see your patterns, commit to some or all of the following:
- Talk about what you are committed to and not what you are worried about.
- Stop apologizing for being you and instead stand tall in who you are.
- Speak about your dreams, not about your disappointments.
- Forget about how phony it may feel at first to speak in an empowered manner, you’ll get used to it.
- Stop complaining about the lack of money, start recognizing what the money is buying you and feel grateful for that.
Think your dreams. Speak your dreams. Watch them come true.
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